I just want to know what the actual story is and as yet it doesn't all seem to be here. I'm assuming the 'wilful ignorance' is directed at me. Ignorant is correct because, as stated, the whole story isn't here; you don't know what you don't know. Wilful I'd dispute because I'm trying to ascertain what was done and what was said, which would tend to indicate a desire to have a greater understanding.