Kwally, I seriously think you need to go kick some *** down at the fabric company. They're not some kind of slow paced mom and pop sewing shop, they're a big company, and it's not like an order this big is new to them (as a matter of fact, according to your original post on the first thread, it's really the only kind of order they do). I realize that sometimes certain things are impossible, no matter how big the factory, but you didn't really ask for anything impossible, by any means. They not only should be able to handle the concept of a set shipping date, it should be second nature to them. I don't think anyone on this board blames you for any of this (I sure don't), the fact is that they need to realize this isn't how you run a business.
