Anyone seen or spoken to Ruffkintoy?

yep, avoiding the questions once again...not able to give answers for what he was doing with peoples' money, and not able to explain the long waits...just trying to prove me wrong...do you realize how many other people have posted grievances with you? why me, why chose to prove me wrong? does it matter? ya, maybe i exaggerated, but what does that matter? it is what you have been doing to people for the last year alomst...the point is, you lied about the timeframe, gave excuses to me to why it was late, and then lied aobut getting the stuff in mail and having a tracking number...just like you have been doing to all your customers lately....that is the point, and that is what you keep avoiding...why dont you pull all your transactions from your customers that have posted their grievances with you ? ya, one case, and really, i think i was the beginning of your digression, and i just had the guts to speak up so people wouldnt make the same mistake...

you refuse to explain yourself with what you did with everyone's money for all those months, and not once have you apologized for keeping people's money for so long...why didnt you offer refunds if you knew you werent going to be able to get their stuff done in the timeframe you lied about? why didnt you respond, to me as well, when we asked for refunds for our items? Chuck, you have proven that i have exaggerated, fine and dandy, now lets see your explanation on what you did with your customers money, and why you would lie and give them false hope about their items being shipped? stop showing how terrible a person i am, and justify yourself...

not once have you apologized for the grief you caused this community, not once have you apologized for the lies and misleadings, and not once have you explained what you did with our money all those months...all you have done is try and prove me wrong, one case, in which you did all of the above still, just with exaggerated time on my part...why dont you try and justify the guy that said 12 months and he still doesnt have his stuff? that must be true, then...you are trying to take the focus off of you, and put it on to me...fine, proof shows that i exaggerated...fine...but instead of trying to prove your innocence with one case, take responsibilty for other 99% of your customers that are looking for answers...:cheers
 
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Just my two cents. I have watched and learned from this. Chuck, the fact that this thread is here should be a complete and total wakeup call. Coming at Fettdad because he is the most passionate about lies and deception and has the moral courage to call someone out...well that is just weak and sad in my oppinion. I have only been on the dent for less than a year and I have sold over 70 mannequins in a two month time. I would sadly have to say that that qualifies me for and online business, like it or not. Try to look at it like this.
If fifty people that I know tell me I stink. Even though I don't think so, I probably should take a shower! Good grief man! How many people have to tell you that you stink before you grab your towel and head for the locker room brother??? I am not saying that you need a wire brush and comet to get clean but take a look in the mirror and think about it for a few. Pride is a very stinky cologne my friend and right now you are bathing in it...

IMO!
 
OK guys, here is the deal, Ruffkintoy has made some pretty big errors here, but he has stated he is trying to straighten them out. We need to give him the opportunity to do so.

Fettdad, while I appreciate your enthusiasm in seeing this resolved, an approach of "the end justifies the mean" is not acceptable. You can't make a vehement argument and when you are proved wrong, shrug it off with "who cares" and jump on another line of attack. Again, I appreciate what you are trying to do, but I think it is clear now that this thread has exceeded 300 posts that Ruffkin has his work cut out for him if he hopes to regain the trust of this community.

Ruffkintoy, you do indeed have your work cut out for you if you have any desire to bring respect back to your name and remain a part of this community. I would strongly encourage you to use this thread to make sure the people with grievances are taken care of in an expeditious manner. As I stated earlier, you had a good reputation in the past and there is no reason you can't have one again, but the choice is entirely in your hands. I would recommend you start by messaging those who have outstanding issues and provide updates and expected dates for rectification.

I would ask the rest of you to back off and give Ruffkin a chance to make things right, as you would want the same if you were in his shoes. If you have outstanding orders or issues, you are welcome to post them here, but we have already established that there are issues in general and continuing to beat a dead horse is pointless. Ruffkin is well aware of the stakes here. The choice will be his to make and you can't browbeat it out of him.
 
Thank you Dent, thats all I am trying to do here is to get this taken care of.

Coming at Fettdad because he is the most passionate about lies and deception and has the moral courage to call someone out...

I am not coming at him, he is after me for some reason, but if he is going to contunue to stick his nose in it then yes I am going to respond to him. I tried to ignore him but everytime I post he seems to have to have another word in. How did I do him wrong? I told hiim 2-4 weeks on the gauntlets, he placed another order 2 weeks after the gauntlets and I was supose to ship the gauntlets with the new order. Within 6 weeks of the gauntlet order and 4 weeks of the second order most his stuff was shipped. There were delays with the jumpsuit, I had apologized for that. I have PMs still from him saying it's ok, I appreciate all your doing for me, I love the stuff etc.
If he feels the need to say something he shouldn't make up things. Yeah I called him out on the exaggerated time frames he's saying he waited for. When I say something is going out I intend for it to go out then, I'm not purposely lying about it.
I'm not attacking anyone or anything, I'm trying to get this taken care of plain and simple. If someone has a problem, say it to me, don't tell me all is good and then later on bash me and lie about it.
Yes I got behind, did I say it was anyones fault? No. I did stop taking orders to get caught up, the only recent things I've taken is when people come to me and go I know you're behind but I want this or that and I can wait no problem.
As for the person waiting on the girth after a year, I admitted that it was my fault did I not? I said I messed up and overlooked it in the packing of a nearly full costume. That matter will be closed this week.
And since he had to post yet again, Fettdad, when did I lie to you and say I had a tracking number? I told you that the jumpsuit wasn't done and I was after her to get it done. I had already paid her the money you sent me for it and told you I couldn't refund the money becasue of that.
I'm not getting into this anymore with you.
I only have a few more Fett related items to get sent out, I will be sedning tracking number when they go out. Mike, I will be getting those replacement parts out to you either end of the week or next week. I will be coming back here everyday or every other day so if you have a problem or anything PM me and I'll get back to you asap.
 
yep, avoiding the questions once again...not able to give answers for what he was doing with peoples' money, and not able to explain the long waits...

you refuse to explain yourself with what you did with everyone's money for all those months, and not once have you apologized for keeping people's money for so long...

not once have you apologized for the grief you caused this community, not once have you apologized for the lies and misleadings, and not once have you explained what you did with our money all those months...all you have done is try and prove me wrong, one case, in which you did all of the above still..

this is my last post concerning this issue...:cheers i wish you the best of luck in rectifying the situation you have with members here...i know that you can rebuild your reputation, and become the vendor you used to be...(y)

and just for the record, if you go back to the first page of this thread, and look at my first post, i did support you, i told people to wait, that you would come thru for them...but when the member i referred to you began having problems, that is when i stepped in...i wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt, i even contacted you about IrishFett and asked you to get that situation taken care of...i trusted you, and maybe that is why i stepped up...but when my friend is having issues with his money as well, and i was the one that sent him to you, that makes me feel very small, and i had to stand up for it...:facepalm i believe you are a good guy, brother, i just want this mess cleaned up, and i will help in anyway i can...i know, first step is to stop talking about it...:cheers
 
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I spoke to Chuck yesterday and he is going to honour the prior purchase and send me the girth belt. Thanks for getting back to me Chuck.
I hope it doesn't take too long, heh?
 
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Just wanted to give everyone waiting a heads up. On the way to the Post office my car just died. Not sure if the fuel pump went out,go0t bad gas yesterday or what. I have been dealing with trying to get it going for about an hour, no luck so got it towed to the shop to have it worked on. I won't know anything about whats going on with it until tomorrow morning at the earliest.
They brought me home with all the packages I was going to ship today(couldn't talk them into taking me to the PO) So, depending on what's going on with the car I won't be able to ship til later tomorrow or the next day. I'm going to try to borrow a car tomorrow if I don't get mine back.
 
Wow, when it rains it pours! Good communication though. I think that makes people feel better. I know that I have't sent out mannequins for two days now because of rain and now we are sitting in tornados....Either way I keep posting on my thread to keep them updated. KUDOS CHUCK! Sorry bout the car though.
 
agreed, good communication. I think this is what everyone was wanting to see. Bummer about the car though, had that happen before, it sucks every time.
 
Yes, in the past month I have blown a coolant line, got that fixed, the next week my exhaust got ripped off by one of those reflectors in the center of the road that must have got knocked off by a plow and then this. I heard from the shop a little while ago, looks to be the wiring for the fuel pump, suppose to be fixed in the morning. I will keep you updated about it and let people know when their stuff goes out.
Mrbungle, as long as I get the car back tomorrow or get another vehichle to use your's will be out tomorrow.
 
time 4 new car lol

Yes, in the past month I have blown a coolant line, got that fixed, the next week my exhaust got ripped off by one of those reflectors in the center of the road that must have got knocked off by a plow and then this. I heard from the shop a little while ago, looks to be the wiring for the fuel pump, suppose to be fixed in the morning. I will keep you updated about it and let people know when their stuff goes out.
Mrbungle, as long as I get the car back tomorrow or get another vehichle to use your's will be out tomorrow.
 
man , i am tired of the excuses, next time it will be a tornado ate the packages that were in his covered wagon while on his way to post office.
if it wasn't for bad luck you would have no luck at all, chuck.
 
hey now......


we had tornados in Oklahoma today....and in some parts, we still use covered wagons...


so easy on the witty analogies, because it could happen here....to some people...
 
no offense to the tornado victims in covered wagons. from the bottom of my heart ,i am sorry.:(:(:(:(:(
 
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man , i am tired of the excuses, next time it will be a tornado ate the packages that were in his covered wagon while on his way to post office.
if it wasn't for bad luck you would have no luck at all, chuck.

No excuses, was just letting people know. How's it my fault the car died on the way to shipping stuff? If you think I'm lying I'll glading send the bill your way so you can see for yourself. Man, get yelled at for not posting on TDH about stuff and get yelled at when I do.
 
No excuses, was just letting people know. How's it my fault the car died on the way to shipping stuff? If you think I'm lying I'll glading send the bill your way so you can see for yourself. Man, get yelled at for not posting on TDH about stuff and get yelled at when I do.

From an outsiders point. Maybe its just peoples frustration. Probably the mindset of "Man its always something."

You gotta understand where they are coming from.
 
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