Please help

Rchrz60

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Hello everyone,
My name is Brad, and I've been a community member for a while now, so I come to my fellow Jedi with a heavy heart. My little brother Ryan is also a community member and he spends a lot of time with you all because he's become disabled and can't leave the house much. Ryan used to be such a happy and outgoing person. He served in the United States Air Force fixing planes for a living, he was a Martial Arts (Aikido) instructor for 10 years, and he has a beautiful wife and 4 little children. About 2 years ago Ryan started having some pain in his legs, and he would lose his balance and fall often. As his condition got worse he and his wife began seeing multiple doctors including Neurologists, Neurosurgeons, and even Physical Therapists. It was finally found, after 2 years of MRIs, EMGs, EKGs, tons of blood work, and even a Spinal Tap that he suffers from a condition called Complex Regional Pain Syndrome and Peripheral Neuropathy. What this means is that the nerve endings in his legs (the ones that transmit to the pain centers in the brain) don't shut off, so he is in agonizing pain all the time. It also causes him to fall quite frequently because those same nerve endings will go into overdrive and temporarily shut off causing him to be paralyzed from the waist down until they "turn back on." Because of this Ryan is no longer able to work because no employer would be okay with him not being there anytime his legs wouldn't cooperate or function at all. He's not getting Social Security Disability, but with 4 kids it's just not enough. So he did what any good father and husband would do to take care of his wife and kids, he started selling off his Star Wars collection. Now I'm sure you know as well as I do that selling your collection on eBay, you won't get nearly what you paid for it, and he had a lot. Besides his 6' Black Series collection, his bin of 3.75' figures, vehicles, playsets, replicas, and even custom playsets that he built.

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He sold all of this so he could pay for the mounting medical bills, and still take care of his family because the SS Disability is basically nothing. It breaks my heart to see him having to do this because he's one of the best people I know. Even though he's my little brother, he always looked out for me as if he was my older brother. He's a wonderful husband and father, and he used to actually get down and play Star Wars Figures with his little kids. Now they just keep asking him where his Star Wars guys are and if they can play guys again. It breaks my heart to see because he loves his kids so much, and he's one person that doesn't deserve this condition. He's already so limited so much with what he can and can't do, now this condition has taken away one of the few things that really bring him joy during all of this.

I'm asking or looking to see if any of you have any extra figures 3.75' or 6' that you could spare or part with. I really want to show him that he's not alone, there is still plenty to be happy about, and there are still good people that care in this galaxy. Please get a hold of me if you think you can help.

Thank you,
Brad Chrzanowski


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Brad, I will look in my mom's attic and/or ask my nephew who may have inherited my collection of originals if we have any. Also, have you considered sending in your brother's story to the chive? They do wonderful events for cases just like this, maybe they could help.
Prayers for your family,
Main
 
Did I understand you right (I am not an english native speaker): you want us to sent Star Wars action figures to your brother so he can play with his childs (all the old ones were sold to pay his medical bills)?
If yes please PM me the shipping address so I will sent something! Or shall we sent stickers, trading cards?
 
Ist on his long way to USA...
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Marc,
Thank you so much. I can't even put into words how much this is going to cheer him up, and it's going to mean so much to him. Thank you again sir, you are awesome!


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This breaks my heart.

Thanks wasteland, mine too. I wanted to get him some stuff too, but I'm already pretty extended helping with some of his medical bills. It took 4 neurosurgeons and 5 neurologists 2 YEARS as well as MRI's, EKG's EMG's Bloodwork, X-rays, and even spinal taps before they finally were able to diagnose his condition because it's not very common. So you can only imagine the bills that racked up in that time frame. And he never asks for help, especially being prior military, luckily my wife talks to his wife and we help where we can, but it just adds insult to injury.


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I was going home to see the folks this past weekend, unfortunately, they were not going to be there. So we didn't go. Worst case scenario, my daughter and I will just go to the store and pick up some new Star Wars action figures and send them on.
 
Hey main, I completely understand and again, any help is appreciated. I had been going over to his house on the weekends to work on those Playsets with him, but now he doesn't even want to do those anymore. So I know this will help brighten his day and give him a reason to work on them. I try to keep him busy, some type of hobby, otherwise he just sits around and thinks about all the stuff he can't do anymore. So again, thank you, I know this will help.


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It's crazy to hear that another Air Force veteran is going through a similar situation I have been going through for the last 2 years.

I had a nerve that was entrapped in scar tissue and producing a lot of the same symptoms your brother has.

There is a surgeon named Doctor Robbert J. Spinner that specializes in Peripheral nerve surgery and he is one of the only surgeons in the country that has experience in this field. He is located at the Mayo Clinic in Minnesota.

With the symptoms your brother is experiencing it sounds like Doctor Spinner might be able to help. He helped me and although I am still recovering, the pain I felt in my knee is about gone. If not fully gone it is so much better than it was.

If this was a injury he sustained while serving in the Air Force, or was sustained because of his service the VA should be able to pay for a trip to Mayo Clinic.

My medical bills were all taken care of as I am still on active duty, but I would be able to help with any red tape the VA might throw up.

If you are interested please send me a PM and we can work to get your brother to Dr. Spinner.

SSgt Brooks Carpenter
 
Brads brother wrote me back today and I am proud to put a smile on his face. If everyone has some star wars action figures he doesn't need just join here...it feels good to do something good...and Christmas is coming!


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Hey everyone, as we start to get closer and closer to the holiday, I wanted to take this opportunity to stop and just say thank you to everyone that's been so willing to help. I can't really even put into words how amazing it is to see my brother opening up a package from one of his fellow forum brothers and sisters. Since he's in pain most days he tries to just keep to himself and not really talk much because he's never been one to complain, so instead he's just quiet all day, that is until a package arrives, and honestly, it's like I have my brother back for a little while. He has something else to focus on to distract him from circumstances and it really does bring a smile to his face, and you can really tell that it even touches his soul. He's reminded that while he may be alone most days, the kids off at school, the wife working, and him home alone with nothing to really do, he's never truly alone, because he can jump on the Forum and talk to one of you all at any point, and again have some contact with the outside world. So again, thank you from the bottom of my heart, it means a lot to me, and I know it means even more to him and his kids.


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