It is taking a LONG time to dry. I am actually a little nervous because when I was severly wringing it out (my hands still hurt!) it looked more reddish. It is still more brown right now, BUT still damp. You think it will lighten as it dries??? I will post more pics tomorrow.
I think you're taking it desperately. Just take a deep breath about 5 times, and follow this advise:
Let it dry as much time as necessary (probably 2 days or so, depends on the weather in your area). As soon as it's really dry, specially if you let it dry outside. Once it's dry, continue with it.
(I haven't done anything about the girths, cause I bougt one from Malcfett, but want to upgrade sometime soon.)
I would say soak it in some warm water and watch it carefully. Wring it out and see where you have to go from there. But someone else may have a better answer.....